Definitions and Facts

What is Online Grooming?

We know, it's a huge definition to take in and one that does require a lot of unpacking but that's what we’re here to do. Since online grooming is a process, there are 4 main stages that we like to highlight.

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Youth Voices on Online Safety

Here are some tips from youth on staying safe online.

As a young teen myself I believe we are very easy to persuade and people will take advantage. I feel that in these situations we need to tell an adult as soon as possible. Also adults need to educate their kids on these situations that way they do know what to do.

17 years

Make sure that you know the people you are talking to and really make sure they give off a good vibe. If anything seems off with them (especially if you don’t know them) block them!

13 years

Take the time to go through your friends list, of you don’t recognize the name just remove them.

Tell someone you trust about the situation. It is a tough thing to go through alone, let alone dangerous. Especially since many of us are at a young age when we go through it, it’s wise to go through it with people older who can handle it with you.

Remember that it is not your fault. These are people who seek those they can manipulate. Now that you’ve seen the signs you may not only know how to avoid it again, but you can also help protect your friends when seeing similar signs happen to them.

My mom told me it wouldn’t be the end of the world if it did happen and we would get through it.

Ask for help if you need it, try not to listen to the negativity. There’s always going to be someone trying to bring you down, try not to listen. Remember you’re worthy. You’re loved. You’re cared for.

Social media and group chats are a really exciting and fun way to connect with people. Now on the internet we can make friends and find relationships at the click of a button. However, you should always be mindful about who you are talking to, and should try to watch out for any red flags.

If someone is trying to force you into getting nudes or your information, even if you known them in a previous time, that’s a nah, know your boundaries.

17 years

Not only online, but if you’re in a relationship where the person is constantly asking for things you don’t feel comfortable giving them (n*des, etc.) just drop them. Do not feel pressured or embarrassed.

14 years

Never share personal information and never show nudes because you don’t know if they will keep them safe and never let anyone on social media try to manipulate you into something you don’t want to do.

15 years